I made many friends and acquaintances during my years in the porn business. Several of said people happened to be gay. This particular group of people, in my opinion, are amongst those most hurt by Christians.
Once again people, being a “Christian” means you’re supposed to be “like Christ”. Did HE ever once judge anyone for their sexual preferences?
Before I go any further let me explain why this has come up today. If you’ve ever posted on message boards you’re probably aware that most of those who participate use a nickname. On one of the boards I’ve been posting on for more than 4 years there is a man who uses the nickname “BoyAlley” and refers to himself as “Teh BoyAlley”.
I have a lot of love and respect for this man. He has raised a lot of money for charity. He’s a sensitive person who is very funny. He seems to have a heart of gold. But, understandably, he feels gay people are persecuted by Christians. When someone asked me on that message board if my newfound Christianity would affect how I feel about “Teh BoyAlley”, I responded with this:
Why would I feel any differently about teh Boy Alley? He is still teh sexy!
Seriously, don’t lump me into the preconceived notions you may have about Christians.
Why is it that I have to repeat, over and over and over again, that I’m not trying to change what anyone else does with their life?
PS: Feel free to quote all the Leviticus scriptures you want, Mr. Asian Diva whatever dude. Tell me how I’m hypocritical for x, y or z.
In that same thread, “Teh BoyAlley” wrote:
I’ll just say, that Teh BoyAlley has donated thousands and thouands and thousands of dollars over the years to organizations that exist to help defend myself, my partner of 8 years, and millions of other homosexuals, from the FUCKING GOD DAMN HORSE SHIT that Jebus fucking jackasses try to legislate down our throats and up our asses.
Christians can go on and on about how “they don’t judge people” and how they’re “entitled to their beliefs”, but at the end of the day, THEY’RE THE ONES forcing their fucked up world views on people like my partner and myself.
My opinion is that I have no right to judge anyone. I’m just going to love everyone to the best of my ability. And I oppose legislating how others act in their bedroom. Seriously, why is that my business?
“BoyAlley”, I love you man! And I’m going to do everything in my power to try to be a representative of what a true Christian should be. I know others claim to be non-judgemental and then turn around and try to force their beliefs down your throat. I promise I will do everything in my power to never do that to you. It is my job to show you the love that Jesus would show you. That is a big job and a big challenge. I hope I can live up to it.